Sino ang Tunay na Bading?


According to Erik Erikson, a psychologist, a person has to resolve certain crises along his life span development. He defined this crises in his 8 psychosocial stages. But I'm not about to elaborate on all 8 now. It will be too boring thus, defeating the purpose of my blog.

Along with the painful process of adolescence is the whole establishment of identity thing people have to hurdle. While most pass with flying colors, others are left behind dealing with identity crisis which is, mind you, very real and diffucult. Sometimes when identity crisis is not dealt with properly, it can give rise to problems that can make one's life all the more complicated.

Girls and boys alike go through identity crisis. But boys, being the tougher beings that they are, need to deal with a lot more like machismo and stuff regarding their sexuality (hah! lucky us).

These might help you gauge maleness(or gayness):

1)lalaking-lalaki- the true man inside out. Any kind of provocation could not shake his identity. He's your stereotypical male species and the perfect example of true machismo.

2)lalaking-femenine- contrary to popular belief, these men aren't gay although they're often labeled as such because of their refined nature. They might not know how to play basketball or any rough sport for that matter but that doesn't make them any less masculine. Even if often, they have more girls than boys as friends it doesn't mean they're gay. Yung ibang bading nga e mas maraming lalaki kaysa baabeng kaibigan e (para siguro makaboso).

3)alanganin- these are men who seem to be caught in the middle still confused whether they like girls or boys as romantic partners. Shaky is one word that could describe them. Sila yung mga hindi pa sigurado sa sexualidad nila.

4)closet queen- magkaiba ang alanganin at ang closet queen sa dahilang alam ng mga closet queen na bading sila yun nga lang ay hindi nila ipinapakita dahil sa mga pansariling motibo katulad ng pakikipaglapit sa iba pang lalaki. Eto yung mga bading na mas maraming kaibigang lalaki dahil gustong mag-take advantage.

5)ladlad- kabaligtaran ng closet queen dahil ibinobroadcast nila sa buongmundo ang kabadingan nila. May dalawang uri ng ladlad:

a)efem- short for efemenine. Sila yung mga bading ng walang dahilan. Wala lang. Yung tipong gusto lang nilang maging bading kaya bading sila. Sila yung mga sosing bading.

b)mamaw- eto naman yung over na sa paglaladlad na hindi na bagay sa kanila yung ginagawa nila kaya nagmumukha na silang multong bakla at nakakatakot na

6)lalaking nababading kapag lasing- lalaki sila pero nagkakaron ng dual personality pag nalalasing na. Pwedeng hindi intensyon. Kapag intensyon na, ang tawagna sa kanila ay closet queen.

7)baklang nalalalaki paglasing- eto yung mga bading na nakakalimutan nilang bading sila pag naka-inom kaya nga sila nagkakabuntis at nagkakaron ng asawa kahit bading sila.

8)bisexual- super dual ang personality. kahit hindi alcohol-induced pedeng mag-iba ang kanilang choice of romantic partner. Minsan babae minsan lalake ang gusto nila.


It's possible for a person to be in no definite category. This might not help you resolve your identity crisis but it can help you know where you're standing and you can work your way from there.


*Nakuha ko nga pala ang ideyang ito sa Bubble Gang...